Fuck the bodyshamers, fuck dem haters. We rock as weπŸ’–πŸ˜Ž

Hey πŸ‘‹ guys, well dis is a start.  I started this blog not just for slim girls but for anyone and everyone who is tired πŸ˜ͺ of constantly been body shamed, constantly been looked down on cause of your body type.  We all have been at that point in our lives where things people say πŸ™Š actually affect us, i know we all say “oh i don’t give a damn what 😦 people say” but lowkey we know its hurting us deep inside, its eating us up within, we lowkey look into the mirror judging all our flaws some of us are scared 😱 of looking πŸ‘€ at the mirror cause we re disgusted by our reflection 😒😒😒..  Some of us are on social media afterall who isnt right πŸ˜‡, i know for one when i go online am bombarded with with pictures of ladies who look so perfect πŸ‘Œ makeup πŸ’„ on fleek, eyebrows on fleek, lipstick πŸ’„ on fleek, d figure eight shape nd all, and then i just look at myself and i feel like when they’re girls like that which guy would want someone as skinny as i am..  I am forever insecure about my relationship cause i feel there are so many ladies out there that arent as skinny as i am. I feel insecure to meet new people especially guys because i feel the first thing everyone seems to notice is 

Omg 😱 😱 see how skinny she’s, she looks so malnourished, she can break πŸ’” at any moment now, does she een eat atall, is she in a diet, look how flat that ass is, look how thin does legs are(are those are legs cause i thought they were sticks?). 

     The hurtful part is when you see those judgmental eyes πŸ‘€ running up and down your body as they try taking πŸ™‡ in your appearance and all u can do is to just stand there and watch them with a smile 😊 on your face so they dont think your weak.  Constantly having to change ☹ your clothes πŸ‘— cause you feel you look more lyk a “broomstick” in them or when you wear them and someone walks 🚢 up to u and tells you “this dress doesn’t fit your body” they feel its a joke 😜 bot knowing deep down your self confidence is lowering at each words..  I remember my very close friend once told me to my face. 

…… you are very ugly, i feel ashamed walking πŸƒ with you, you are so skinny and boring.  Have you looked at your face before.  

These words are forever itched into my mind i can never forget them she thought it was all a joke 😜 but it wasnt atall funny to me.  

I know we all have our experiences you might be fat or skinny lyk me, you could be a lady πŸ‘’, a teenager πŸ‘§, a woman, a man, a boy πŸ‘¦ anything and whatever and whoever you might be all i care about is us coming together to bring out the beauty in each other, to be there for ech other, to love each other for who we really are.. And i want to begin my journey of self-discovery if y’all would agree to start this journey with me.  Life is too short for negative energy and vibe. 

Let this journey begin,…… 

Share your experience if u ve eva been bodyshamed or you just need a confidant, an advicer, a friend, a sister, a clown to make u laugh laugh πŸ˜„..  We all can do it together… #bodyshamimg ends now#. 

Slimbitch says soπŸ’‹β€πŸ˜˜πŸ˜

Thanks to the internet πŸ“Ά for the pictures… @slimgirlquotes.  @pininterest

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Letter to myself πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯😧

Can’t help but feel so down today afterall am only human, how do y’all deal wit stress.. I deal with mine by watching TV πŸ“Ί or listening to music 🎷 or eating..
Would like to hear from you guys πŸ‘¬, share how you deal with days when you feel down πŸ˜₯
Drop ur comments.. Love y’all #slimbitch says so#

Relationships πŸ’ž

Do you ever look at yourself  and look at your partner and feel deep within you that he or she can do so much better??? 

Do you ever look around the restaurant while you’re out on a date and think πŸ’­ “are they staring at me, do they think he or she can do better, look how cute that girl is looking am sure it would have been cute if he was with her or look at that fit six-packs guy am sure they would hv made a perfect pair”.??? 

Or do you feel like you embarass your  partner with your appearance and body shape,  do u feel self conscious around their friends or family πŸ‘ͺ??? 

Do you detest going out with your partner, you secretely dread every outing cause you just don’t fit in to a particular body type?? 

Well bae or boo get rid of that thought, you’re damn beautiful or handsome how you’re and the right person πŸ™ ll see thru the skinny body, through the extra flesh, through the baggy clothes πŸ‘—, through the flat ass or boobs, see through the potbelly, see through the extra chin.. He or she ll see right into your golden soul and into the real you cause you are rare, you’re one of a kind, you’re irreplaceable, you are beautiful, you are handsome, you’re hot, you’re classy, you’re sexy, you’re rad, you’re everything special… And if ur partner fails to see that den drop them like a bad habit.  No one should ever make you feel like they’re “just managing you “, or like you’re “a charity case”..  No one has a right to tell you that “no one ll eva love u” … They re as wrong as hell quit such toxic ☣ people, it might hurt but baby gal rediscover urself, live for u, be u nd the right person πŸ™ ll show up to sweep  u of ur feet..  You dont need anibody to be happy πŸ˜€ u onli need urself… 

Remember  “drop dem lyk a bad habit, they re toxic to ur happiness 😌 “

Be happy, be you,  love u, rediscover uπŸ’

#slimbitch says so# #bodyshaming ends now# #drop em like a bad habit# #they toxic#

Shopping πŸͺΒ 

So today i was feeling more on the good side 😊😊 of life and decided to go shopping, it isnt a surprise if u ve read πŸ“˜ from my other posts that am quite skinny.  So i walked in started trying out clothes πŸ‘— that i thought would look pretty good πŸ‘ on me so i brought all of em out every single 🌹  colour dat caught my eye πŸ‘€ with the help of the shop attendant, as i was busy with the clothes and all the shop attendant made a comment 😑 

………. but you’re seriously really  skinny, like this dress your tryin on that seems quite loose was really tight 😝 on some of the customers that came inπŸ˜’.. Notice the “re u serious emoji “.  Well i just  shrugged it off and continued my shopping πŸͺ  cause no lousy comment is enough to ruin the joy 😁 i had when i left my home 🏠. 

What 😦 am trying to bring out from this is that we are the ones that have the right to make what people say affect us nd ruin whatever happiness 😌 you had at that moment.  I wont lie it might be difficult most times to ignore certain comments and reactions u might have heard some of these;

….. oooh how  did she fit into that she be looking like a whale 🐳, or u might have heard,  “why did she wear that when she has no bum for such” and so many derogatory statements about your sense of fashion πŸ‘™ whether you’re on the thicker side or you’re on the slimer side or your on whatever side no one has a right to criticize ur fashion on the basis of ur weight if u like it own it, be it, live it.  You live only once dont let the statement of an ignorant person πŸ™ or persons make u stay covered up in baggy clothes and a hoodie just to try and hide your weight βš–… Nope πŸ™… that’s unacceptable u ve a right to look beautiful cos u re beautiful.  And i cant ignore  the guys πŸ‘¬ right here look handsome cos u re handsome nd the world 🌏 deserves  to see πŸ™Š that. 

I ll be rocking the clothes i got in a while πŸ˜‚ no matter what 😦 was said because i believe i look beautiful in them.. If u radiate beauty nd confidence in your fashion the world 🌏 would have no choice but to bow πŸ™ sooner or later to that confidence 😎.  But if you radiate fear 😱 nd self consciousness 😒😒😒 that you don’t deserve to wear so and so clothes πŸ‘— then the world 🌏 would act on it. 

So ladies, girls, women, gents, teens, granny, grandpa.  Be you, create βš’ your own fashion be your own kinda beautiful, dress to please πŸ™ u and no one else. # bodyshaming ends now#.  #we all cute lyk dah πŸ’‹πŸ˜#..  

Pictures of the dresses will be dropping soon.. 

I wld like πŸ’— your comments on how you feel.. Have  you experienced such before drop your experiences in  the  comment section πŸ‘‘.  Spread the word..  #slimbitch says so#

ReminderΒ 

Please πŸ™ please and please as you view my posts feel free to drop your comments i really want to know if at all dere re people out there who’re ready to stand with this movement #bodyshaming ends now#